A few years back, while mowing the lawn all of a sudden the engine of the mower started to sputter. I stopped and after seconds, it died. Great! I stand in the midst of the lawn not even done with half of it and my mower refuses to work. Now, what to do? Trying to start it again failed. What can be the problem? Perhaps the spark plug. That was always the first thing I checked at my moped. I was used to cleaning or exchanging it and had no problem doing it by myself. OK, so I left the spot behind the mower and walked to the front seeing that the spark plug hung down loosely. No wonder, that the mower did not work and it was an easy task to simply plug it in. All worked properly again!
That made me think because it is such a perfect example of perspective. I could not see the loosened spark plug from that place where I am pushing the mower. I was only able to see it when I walked around. I did not even have to look beneath it. Walking around sufficed.
How often are we struggling with problems and looking out for a solution? But we don’t leave the place where we noticed the problem. We still look at the situation from the same perspective and only find the problem but nothing that could help us solve it. Only when we leave the position we are, detach from the place where it occurred we can find inputs or even solutions.
I know, I used that quote quite some time already but it holds such a deep truth. As long as we are stuck with a view that only sees the problem we cannot see anything else. We need to detach from it, back off a bit or walk around it. That not only shows so many more details about the situation itself but also liberates us from that chaining feeling of identifying with the problem. The problem may be part of your current life situation. But you are not the problem.
Actually, there isn’t even a problem. What makes a problem a problem? The label! We are quick in labeling things which don’t work out properly as a problem. But then again those are only happenings. We would never label something as a problem which happens unexpectedly but brings joy. It is only the things that force us to step out of our comfort zone, right? But right those are the things which help us to not get stuck in our development. Those things that keep us in motion and to gain a lot of insights which in the end prepare us for the blessings in life. Blessings we couldn’t welcome without that preparation.
Perhaps it would even help when we stop calling things problems but for example: Mind-Expander, Trailblazer, Life-Preparer… However you may call it, it causes a different power within you in order to take the challenge. When we call something a problem we see that big mountain rising in front of us. But when we call it a Tool to Success it makes us the mountain!
I understand that sometimes it is not easy to see it that way when life really throws you off your feet. But then again, it doesn’t solve anything. It makes things even worse because you sink deeper and deeper into the problem. Even when you are not able to walk around it by yourself ask someone to guide you or at least to walk with you in asking them about their perspective. There are always ways to overcome it, to go through it, or to even dissolve it. You only might have not looked into that direction yet.
Sometimes issues don’t even exist. It is all a misunderstandings. But in keeping up our point of view, not trying to find out and getting stuck in our own opinion without knowing any further details only create issues. We can only find that out in leaving the place where we spotted the problem and walk around it. We need to leave the heavy energy of the problem and connect with the solution in order to be open to the solution. As soon as we detached from the problem the solution may appear quickly due to a changed perspective.
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I.love this sis… and that owl! 💜
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Isn’t it cute 💖
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Totally xx
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Changing our perspective, holds ALL our power
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You said that wonderfully! The perspecitve defines where we will set our next step.
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You’re absolutely right. Different perspectives lead to a broader range of solutions. Great insight!
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And understanding that teaches us to think from the end. Depending on the outcome we want we need to find a perspective that supports it.
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Explore all angles until you find alignment.
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That sums it all up. It is exactly that. Once I feel aligned I know it is “my” way!
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My way… empowering!
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🤚🏽👊🏽
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It affects how we feel and how we act! 🙏🏻
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Yes, it affects our experiences and how we move on with them.
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great post Erika, there is great wisdom in your thought process, may you have a great day, blessings
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Thank you very much. I am happy you think so and that the post spoke to you. Blessings to you too!
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good soul, bless you
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So kind, thank you 😊
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Love that final picture. It shows with absolute clarity how a single object can be seen in two totally different ways, just as we have at least two choices with everything.
We can choose to do something, or we can choose to do nothing … it is a matter of choice. Where a lot of people have trouble, is with the knowledge that by accepting that they have choices, they then have to take responsibility for those choices. Blaming the world for ones circumstances is no longer acceptable.
In the context of your mower, you could have chosen to investigate to see if there was an obvious issue; you could have asked a friend/neighbor/colleague to look at it; you could have taken it to a repair business; you could have just put it back in the shed. Great job Erika …. with the Post and the mower! 🙂
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LOL, thank you, Colin. Yes, that’s true, even understanding that we have choices is already realizing that our lives are in our responsibility. And that even not choosing is a decision that causes consequences which have to be taken by that person. But yes, not accepting choices makes it easier to hide behind blaming others… which in the end, only puts one into a prison and dependency.
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Exactly. 🙂
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It’s not an easy thing to achieve, but you’re absolutely right. Thanks, Erika!
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Right, not easy at all because even that is a question of perspective. But once we deeply understand that we have the choice on how to look at something it is the moment that changes life completely.
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wow – this is story reminds me of an old English Drama – this is amazing and has a beautiful meaning Ericka:)
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How we look at life defines how we experience it. Thank you vey much, Mihran. I am glad it spoke to you 🙂
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