Lately, while mowing the lawn all of a sudden the engine of the mower started to sputter. I stopped and after seconds, it died. Great! I stand in the midst of the lawn not even done with half of it and my mower refuses to work. Now what to do, I am not an engineer. Trying to start it again failed. What could it be? Perhaps the spark plug. That was always the first thing I checked on my moped. I was used to cleaning or exchanging it and had no problem doing it by myself. OK, so I left the spot behind the mower and walked to the front seeing that the spark plug hung down loosely. No wonder, that the mower did not work and it was an easy task to simply plug it in. All worked perfectly again!
That made me think because it is such a perfect example of perspective. I could not see the loosened spark plug from the place where I am pushing the mower. I was only able to see it when I walked around. I did not even have to look beneath it. Walking around sufficed.
How often are we struggling with problems and looking out for a solution? But we don’t leave the place where we noticed the problem. We still look at the situation from the same perspective and only find the problem but nothing that could help us solve it. Only when we leave the position we are in and detach from the place where it occurred we can find inputs or even solutions.
I know, I used that quote quite some time already but it holds such a deep truth. As long as we are stuck with a view that only sees the problem we cannot see anything else. We need to detach from it, back off a bit, or walk around it. That not only shows so many more details about the situation itself but also liberates us from that chaining feeling of identifying with the problem. The problem may be part of your current life situation. But you are not the problem.
Actually, there isn’t even a problem. What makes a problem a problem? The label! We are quick in labeling things as a problem that don’t work out smoothly. But then again those are only happenings. We would never label something a problem that happens unexpectedly but brings joy. It is only the things that force us to step out of our comfort zone, right? But right those are the things that help us to not get stuck in our development. Those things keep us in motion and gain a lot of insights which in the end prepare us for the blessings in life. Blessings we couldn’t welcome without that preparation.
Perhaps it would even help when we stop calling things problems but for example Mind-Expander, Trailblazer, Life-Preparer… However you may call it, it causes a different power within you in order to take the challenge. When we call something a problem we see that big mountain rising in front of us. But when we call it a Tool to Success it makes us the mountain!
I understand that sometimes it is not easy to see it that way when life really throws you off your feet. But then again, it doesn’t solve anything. It makes things even worse because you sink deeper and deeper into the problem. Even when you are not able to walk around it by yourself ask someone to guide you or at least to walk with you in asking them about their perspective. There are always ways to overcome it, to go through it, or to even dissolve it. You only might have not looked in that direction yet.
Sometimes issues don’t even exist. It is all a misunderstanding. But in keeping up our point of view, not trying to find out and getting stuck in our own opinion without knowing any further details only create issues. We can only find that out by leaving the place where we spotted the problem and walking around it. We need to leave the heavy energy of the problem and connect with the solution in order to be open to the solution. As soon as we detached from the problem the solution may appear quickly due to a changed perspective.
You are the mountain!
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“The problem may be part of your current life situation. But you are not the problem.” This is such a profound statement. Obviously, the real point followed with not labeling and the error in thinking when we do label things. However, this was the strongest statement to me, because I think it is easy to be hard on ourselves and take the blame for things, when sometimes or often, it is the situation – not the person. It is true, that a lot of situations we are in, can be looked at differently, and if we focus on the solution instead of the “problem”, only then can we step aside from our emotions and perspective to look at it more objectively. I’ve missed your blog, Erika. I’m happy to be back.
~ Karen
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Oh, Karen, welcome back! When I saw your water lily showing up, I smiled! It is so good to see you again. I agree, to me it is a very profound insight to understand that we are not our circumstances, we are only dealing with them. Cause if we were our circumstances then nothing would ever change, but it does. This insight stops identifying with – as you said it so well – our emotions and change the perspective. That was such an awesome comment, Karen! Feel strongly hugged 💖
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Wow, so much to learn from this.
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Hi, thank you for stopping by and thank you very much for your kind comment. I am happy you liked it 😊
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One of the most amazing posts I have read, sis, well done. My busy mind is thinking, grin, but peaceful. Huge hugs.
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Thank you, Sis! I appreciate your comment very much. I am happy when I could inspire you! Grinning and hugging you back 💖
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xoxo ❤ 🙂 🙂
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I will have to try this Erika, change my perspective on a number of things, take a new look, you are an inspiration! BTW, I have to wait to find you on someones post cause your address is not on your avatar and you dont come up in my reader or mail though I am following you. I am sorry if I come late to you! I adore your blog and always leave a bit happier than when I came. ❤
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Hmmm…. that is not funny, that my posts are not showing up on your reader. But such issues happen so often. There is a blog that doesn’t show up on my reader too. Don’t know what the cause is. Thank you for letting me know. And thank you so much for you kind words. In the end that is what I try to achieve that people are leaving a bit happier then when they came….. you saying this makes my day, Holly! Thank you so much…. same effect over here now 😊💖
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It seems when I have this problem is it with the most popular blogs. WP…grrrrr.
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Wow, I feel honored that this means you consider my blog as popular! You made my day again! 😁 Thank you!
Yes, WP is challenging us over and over again. The thing is that there is no explanation for some issues!
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I have stopped wondering , lol! Have a beautiful day Erika!
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Acutally so did I … haha, we would never get it done! Have a lovely day too, Holly!
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You’re far more patient than me. That’s what makes you, you!
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OMG! I am still chasing patience but it simply is too fast… lol!
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And a slippery little sucker!
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Haha… exactly! 😃
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So true!!
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Thank you, Traci 😊
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It’s so nice to surprise yourself like that.
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Yes, it truly is… haha! Those are pretty clear insights!
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I’m impressed at your patience and troubleshooting skills! And the fact that you didn’t apply a swift kick first to said mower… lol. 😉
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Haha…. believe me, it heard that I was not amused at all… lol! When I was done with my rant I moved around it and saw it! That made it even clearer to me… haha! Thank you very much for your comment 😃
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Loved this post. The reality of lawn mowing and keeping things in perspective.
Hugs
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LOL… right! mowing can be so insightful… haha! Thank you, Sarah!
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Great post Erika 😀
I use to call them challenges and then look out for possible solutions. Problems don’t need to exist or be labelled.
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Exactly! Challenge is a better word which actually provokes us to get better and grow of it! Thank you, Irene!
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Thank you as always for your inspiration and light, Erika! xoxo
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Thank you, Kelly! It is a blessing for me that you all like to read what I share! It is a dream come true and definitely inspiring me for more 😃
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It’s a blessing for us to have someone like you we can always count on for uplifting thoughts and words! Hope you never stop doing what you do best! 🙂
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Wow, that is so lovely, Kelly! I will never stop 😊
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Good! xoxo
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Wonderful post and so true Erika! Always helpful and motivating!
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I am happy you feel that way, Lynn. We often get stuck and desperate about something and don’t notice that we only needed to move a bit to the side. Glad you liked it, Lynn☺
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So true, a slight adjustment makes all the difference x
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Oh yes, that slight adjustment can make a dramatic difference! I like a lot what you said here! Thank you, Lynn!
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Thank you!
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You are welcome, Lynn!
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Another great post sis!! 😊
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Thank you so much, Sis 😊 Happy to know you liked it ☺
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Great post, Erika! A different perspective can really change our perception of any situation. Thanks for the inspiration!
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Thank you for your comment, Sylvester! It is so important that we check out different perspectives (also from others) in order to develop! I thank you!
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You’re welcome and I agree. Look at every situation from all angles. A different perspective never hurts!
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Right!!! Nothing to add 😁
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Reblogged this on Planet Simon and commented:
I loved this post from Erika so much – she has very kindly allowed me to reblog it.
Keep looking for that angle that will loow things to make sense, just like Erika writes.
Simon 🙂
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Oh wow Erika – that’s so great!!!! I LOVE THIS!!!! This is where I’m at now with an “opportunity to improve” but I can’t find the right angle to tackle it. But I know it needs to be found and there are those around me that all they can see is the problem.
May I be permitted to re-blog this?
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Simon, I am so happy that this seemed meant to be for you today! Isn’t it amazing how things are happening at the right time? I hope the inspiration you find helps you to detach (also in some way from the people) and see more around the problem.
I would feel honored if you reblogged. You never need to ask. It is a compliment! Thank you!
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Hi Erika – it was menat for me and detaching is not a porblem. I’m used to trying to find a solution from a different perspective. The problem is finding which one in a multi faceted issue which is causing myself an others real concern and is causing a lot of hate to go our way.
It’s always nice to have a re-blog. I wanted to be polite becasue you put so much work and energy into your posts. 🙂
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Ah, I see the dilemma! I hope the solution shows up soon and everybody calms down again ☺
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I hope so too Erika, it’s wearing me down some days x
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I totally understand that, Simon! The energy is destructive!
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It is and these people live off it, off of sapping others energy. I’ve never understood it.
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I get you better now, Simon, and I understand the background of being not that happy at work.
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I’m glad you see me better, it’s something that many don’t understand. Thank you 😃😘
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I do, Simon! It is not a motivating environment but who knows…. perhaps something was set into motion now…
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Maybe, we will see. I always remain positive.
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That is already a lot and since you cannot force the others to think differently, it is the only thing you can do so far!
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Exactly, this si what I face and it makes me feel trapped.
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I see, Simon! Just a thought, would a change of the job be an option?
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If I could find something…
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Keep the thought up, your eyes and ears open… just not resign!
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Always my friend – always 🙂
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So true. A beautiful and uplifting post.
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Thank you very much, Michelle! Changing the pespective is such an easy and complicated tool at the same time. But then again the only way to see something different in the challenging situation!
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Good one Erika! If you want a change of scenery, then look in a different direction! 🙂
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That is exctly the bottom line, Colin! Awesome! May I?
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You may. 🙂
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Amazing and oh so clear!
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Thank you very much! Yes, in the end we need to detach in order to move around the problem, right?
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Great example, Erika, thanks for sharing! Xo
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Thank you for stopping by and reading, Vonita. Glad you liked it 😊
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Great piece, Erika. Historical perspective is one of my favorites. Things that we saw as burdens or problems turn out to be some of life’s most valuable lessons. ❤️
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Oh, I love that! I love to look back and see the context of how things (might) have come together and that not so nice happenings were necessary to lead or open our eyes! Awesome comment, Van! Thank you 💖
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Erika, I hope my mower can make it through mine, as we have been traveling and missed a week. Great quotes and theme. But, most of all, best wishes on your new job!! I hope your first week is wonderful and it turns out to be a great fit. Keith
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Haha… I cross my fingers for you, Keith! Thank you! It turned out that I will not start before June. It is a startup company and this all is just about to come together. But at least I have some more time to care about my “blogily” – as Ritu says 😊
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We welcome your company as always. Enjoy the extended break.
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And that is very much appreciated. Thank you, Keith 😊
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Erika, mower worked, but the pusher and bagger is tired. Maybe I need a new battery. Keith
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Oh, you deserve a little charging time, Keith! Glad for you that it is done 😊
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This is so true. I used to tell patients all the time. Not easy to do it yourself, though. Sometimes just asking somebody what would they tell somebody else if they told them the same problem they had…
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Yes, right, Olga. That is why we should listen and at least take a look at that different point of view! Thank you!
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This is a great example of perspective Erika. At first, it is so easy to become annoyed that the mower didn’t work and just leave it, but you didn’t. You checked it and then found out what the problem was and fixed it. 🙂
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Yes, that example actually inspired me to the post! We only need to change our point of view to see so much more and find solutions!
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Yes, exactly 🙂
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