Not What You Do But Who You Are

I often mention that I am writing my posts quite a while ahead to make sure that I have them ready even when something gets in my way. What amazes me very often is the fact that so many readers say, how timely the post was for them and probably would not have touched anything in them if it was published right away.

This post was written about 10 days ago. It was a gorgeous spring day and I was sitting on my patio. The sky was deep blue and the temperatures had finally risen again. The birds were singing and flying around joyfully. The flowers blossomed colorfully and the bees and butterflies were buzzing and fluttering around. At that moment I felt such peace. I couldn’t be anything but grateful and the contentment which filled me touched me deeply. There was no hectic, no “I need to get it done or my to-do list will pile up even more” – only serenity.

That was the perfect time for writing a post. But I could not think of something to write so grabbed my favorite deck of oracle cards the “Gateway Cards” of Denise Linn. I riffled the cards to wait until one sticks out or falls off. The second riffle already showed the card. It could not have been fitting better. This one described the feeling I was in perfectly, and it confirmed that this should not be a single moment of remembering what alignment means but a signpost to make it part of my life again.

Make use of the given moment. Do what fills you with joy. Make experiences and be at places that make your heart smile. Release the need to always check on what should or could be done. You don’t need to prove anything. One thing at a time. Contentment does not come from how much you achieved but from how much meaning of it is returned to you. Yes, there are obligations and responsibilities to be fulfilled but there is also a time in between. We shouldn’t squeeze even more things into that time but use it for regaining energy. Sometimes we have to hang in over a period (like many are doing this these days in amazing ways) but it should still only be a period and not become a habit.

Then I read in the little booklet what the Universe wants to tell us with that card:
You are not meant to solely work hard and be dutiful and diligent. Life should be lived abundantly and fully. Give yourself permission to be happy and experience profound gratification. Embrace the pleasure whenever you can. Create personal environments that fill you with deep satisfaction. Cherish your friendships. Love often and deeply. Allow your senses to be satiated. See, hear, taste, touch, and feel the beauty within and around you. Drink well, eat well, and dance into the early morning hours.

I think the meaning goes even further these days: There is no reason to feel worthless or useless for being slowed down. For those in lockdown, you deserve a break. You cannot do anything about it anyway. Be in the moment and enjoy the moment. So charge your batteries, do things that keep your mood high, and inspire others to do the same. This is not the time for feeling guilty. It is the time we can let our hearts speak to do more for ourselves and therefore also for others. Also, those who lost their jobs will be needed again once life begins to start the engines again.

Maybe the lesson and the message of the card right now lie in stopping measuring our self-worth and value with what we do but with who we are. We don’t need to prove anything. We need to be as happy as possible to stay healthy, strong, loving, tolerant, respectful, and supportive but most of all, to be the persons we have always been meant to be. What people could there be better to work with?

I wonder to whom this post may speak today.

In Love, Light, and Health


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The purpose of my blog is to inspire and shine a light on the beauty and power of the wonderful being inside your body. You came into this world to share what only you can give. Remember who you really are, conquer the world the way you always wanted to, and become the blessing to us all that you were meant to be.

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Gary, I think this is the best definition to have. Only when we accpet who we are, we can use our full potential AND use it in the best and most productive way. That is not only becoming a blessing for those around us but most of all for ourselves. I think there is no deeper feeling of contentment and oneness than being aligned with who we are. Thank you for this goosebumps-producing comment, Gary!

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I think you need to keep spreading awareness for sure. The situation could be much worse or actually is a lot worse for many people. Just think of those who lost their jobs and more in the long run, the refugee camps, the ones who don’t have anyone to take care of,… That is what we must not lose out of sight. So, keep up your good job, Michael 😉

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This post serves me as a confirmation of how my month has played out. The main topic for me has been release. While in the center of so much change both personal and physical, all I can do is surrender and let go. There is nothing to do.

I have been mostly sitting with myself lately and has lonely as it first felt, I am now basking in it because I have dug in deeper with my soul. Lincoln was hospitalized and I was caught in some family drama. I was forced into even more solitude. It was both painful and wonderful. All in all it helps my creativity bloom.
The undeniable calm of inner peace overwhelm me to tears lately. I am so thankful for this quiet release of time. There are no schedules and I love it!! There is only me. My mantra lately has been focus, surrender and release. I am exactly where I’m supposed to be😊
Your words so explain this perfectly and with so much love❤

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Dear Maria, the soft and light energy of relief and simple contentment that flows from your words is both thouching and strenghtening.
I am sorry to hear about Lincoln being in hospital. I hope he is doing much better already and gets completely well soon.
Blessings for both of you 💖

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He is my dear, thank you🙏 Mostly what I have been practicing is patience. Patience with myself during this process and understanding that all of this is necessary. Growth and evolution of self is not for the faint of heart. It’s painful. There is beauty in this painful process and I welcome it. I know that nothing that is happening to me is to hurt me but that it serves to help push my along my path. I have committed to this process. I am so thankful to you and my other soulful friends with whom I lean on for support of this. Thank you Erika from the bottom of my ❤

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It is such a grace to become aware of the fact that every obstacle and being pushed through the pain is the doorway to liberation. Thank you for sharing your view and experience on this, Maria 💖

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Thank you, Keith. What a lovely friend you have… haha. It is not always easy and often people feel guilty of not “working” (however they define “working”) but spoiling themselves. It has nothing to do with being selfish. Why not granting ourselves the same we are granting others: Finding ways to enjoy life!

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Your post is very serendipitous for me. I have been cleaning out my file cabinets and found an online course I did in 2010 about trust. I figured, now is a good time to revisit it. Today’s lesson is about trusting your power aka self-worth comes from within. It is not what you do but who you already are! I also enjoying picking cards and writing about the messages I receive. I found this deck you used, “Gateway Cards” of Denise Linn, absolutely beautiful! Many Blessings to you, Erika. I hope to connect with you again here on wordpress.

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Hi, Lisa! So lovely to meet you. Thank you very much for stopping by. It amazes me time and time again when everything is coming together in hints and signposts to confirm the path.
Isn’t that a beautiful deck of oracle cards? So full of positive energy and light. I am happy you found me, Lisa. I will head over to check out your blog. Your wonderful comment made me curious 😊💖

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Deeply insightful post, Erika. We should enjoy the moment and fill that moment with as much life as possible. This lockdown has been a life changing experience for the most. Like you said, if we can reenergize and get back in touch with who we are then we will come out better and stronger. Great post and have a wonderful week.

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This is a beautiful summary, Sylvester. Indeed, whatever may look like falling apart is only provided to inspire our imagination and creativity for building something completely new with the debris. Thank you for this beautiful comment, dear friend!

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Thank you, sis 😘There is so much beauty in everything to find and that is what motivates and empowers us to overcome the obstacles which may also be present 💖

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When I was younger I put up a lost notice to see if someone could help me to find ‘me’. A young lady joined me in my journey and she took me to many places. I found bits and pieces but somehow it still didn’t feel right. Then I was ‘let go’ to try to do it myself and it was there that I found more clues to where I was. In fact it led me to a place that I didn’t even know existed. Had some amazing discoveries, and before I knew it I found something so incredible that it finally made me stop. And in the last place I looked was this guy, he looked just like me, sounded like me, and all he could do was smile, inside and out. He gave me a hug with great feeling and for the first time I knew, really knew I had found what I was looking for. In that one moment he showed me how to ‘let go’ of my journeying, because I was now home. Showed me that love isn’t out there but waiting inside, to love freely, openly because anything else was a part of the previous journey so that this moment could be found. And to love truly in trust and faith, because this journey will indeed find that very person we have always looked for.
Hello Erika, my name is Mark. That is who I am 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋

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Hello, Mark, it is the greatest pleasure to meet you… it has always been. Because what you wrote here about your journey back home to yourself is exactly what radiates from everything your write in your comments, replies, posts… The journey is so important because it makes us feel the power of home, the power of coming home, the power of being home again in such a strong way that we grow the deepest roots in an instant. Even if we may have lost the path again, we know how it feels and we know how to get there again. It is the greatest blessing to experience the feeling of coming home.
You made my heart grow double its size because of your comment and where I went from there with my feelings and thoughts. Thank your for being here, Mark. Your shining soul is such a blessing 🙏💖🙏

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