After I talked to a friend recently, this quote came to mind. I could not find the original quote, just had these words in mind. So, I could not find the source either. However, the words carry a profound meaning regarding our approach to creation.

Although it was a lot worse in the past, I still find myself thinking about how some circumstances restrict me. I thought I would feel less anxious, less stressed, less burdened, if only this or that were different or dissolved. In life’s process, we forget so easily how much power we own! We forget the powerful, creative part of ourselves.

Everything and everyone vibrates. It does not matter whether we are aware of it or not. We do, and we do it constantly. We radiate who we feel to be at that moment, may it be joyful, worrisome, fearful, courageous, respectful, ignorant… Whatever it is we fill ourselves with is what we vibrate. Now, the misunderstanding is that not the circumstances that need to change to make life easier; we must change to make life easier. We must change our vibration to attract the same energy we vibrate. As I said, we do it all the time, so why not do it consciously for our own benefit?

Just a little reminder: If we focus on the circumstances to change, we cause more inner turmoil. It might result in us running in circles. The more we focus on the circumstances, the more we might feel anxious, helpless, and desperate. And that is what we radiate. So, how can we expect circumstances to change as long as we hold on to them so strongly? We need to get out of that circle. As long as we make ourselves dependent on the uncontrollable, we won’t ever find peace.

Circumstances are there to lead us through our own maze of misunderstandings. To show us by experience how creation works. The first time you consciously stepped back and noticed the circumstances not as part of you but only as part of the journey, you found the first step of distancing from the idea of identifying with them. Step back again, find your inner sacred place, and act from there. See that whatever is around, whatever can change or get lost, can never be part of you. You are endless, but what is around you is finite and only there to serve for the moment. The truth lies in you, and you are the controller.

Is there a guarantee that we can reach everything we want every time? No, there isn’t. The more people involved, the more co-creation happens. Also, sometimes, we need to accept that things are as they are. However, this should motivate and encourage even more to stick with your inner magician – your inner divinity. Seeing how co-creation (of people around us) affects our own little world can make us understand that change begins with ourselves.

If you want someone to change their attitude because you see how they are running against a wall, envision them realizing it, but respect their own way of finding out. If you want someone to behave differently towards you, change your way of behaving towards them, and see what happens. If you want someone to heal, envision their healthy, shiny being, but respect that in the end, their being has the last word.

Yes, circumstances can change a person.
But we still have the power to decide to what level and if at all.

In Love and Light