Doubts and Fear – Looking For What You Don’t Want


It doesn’t matter how nice, beautiful, lovely something may appear, there are people who are having problems accepting thankfully and instead reflexively question all good things. They are more convinced that good things cannot be real but accept the not so good things as the only realistic option. Whatever good they see, they will not be fine until they find something to criticize. Yes, all that glitters is not gold. But why searching for the non-gold when I am doing good with what glitters?


No one and nothing is perfect, and then again, how do we define “perfect”? We will always find coals  when we are digging deep enough. Those who are only focusing on finding something bad, proudly hold up high that piece of coal in order to run someone down. What they don’t notice is the dirt on themselves due to the mud digging while pointing on the other one.


There is not only good or only bad. We can find either in everything. It is our choice what we are searching for. But there are those who instantly check where the rub is. That way, they cannot enjoy the beautiful things in life or even don’t even notice it. For example, when someone is permanently scared to eat anything unhealthy they may not only look for healthy food but for everything unhealthy in a possible healthy food… once that starts they never get it done. What happens is that they are eating with fear instead of enjoyment. That way fear becomes part of their nutrition. I believe that this is one of the reasons why people get sick although they are eating deliberately healthy. Because it is not the food that makes them sick in the first place but the poisoning thoughts.


There are many more situations like the business world, relationships, … in which someone can be caught in looking out for what they actually want to avoid. Once they found something suspicious they feel confirmed although they were only blind for all good things around them. We definitely shouldn’t believe everything we see and hear. But we mustn’t drive ourselves crazy in only seeking for conspiracy theories. Because then we might only find coals and the gold will be found by those who reflexively reach for the beauty in the normal and even more in the difficult. Even rotten food cannot harm your body as much as constant rotten thoughts can. Feed your system with beauty and joy and pass it on to others.


In Love and Light

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The purpose of my blog is to inspire and shine a light on the beauty and power of the wonderful being inside your body. You came into this world to share what only you can give. Remember who you really are, conquer the world the way you always wanted to, and become the blessing to us all that you were meant to be.


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