Lately, I thought about change and development. It happens that people you have known your whole life don’t appear the same anymore. It is getting harder to get along with them or it goes better, all of a sudden. But is it really them?

Everybody is developing constantly, every day, every hour, every moment. Even when we are not aware of it we are learning, experiencing, and as a result, developing. That’s why our opinions, preferences, and dislikes, but also our goals change. With those changes, we think, feel, and act differently which affects our surroundings. When I started to change my belief system consciously and trained myself to an automated positive attitude, I noticed more negativity around me. But it was not the others being more negative it was me being more positive.

The same energies always align. That is why we often meet new people or discover something new when we are entering a new state of consciousness. May it be due to a new job, a new idea we want to bring to life, or simply an insight we gained. It may be confusing when there seems to be a gap between you and people you were used to getting along well. You may not understand one another or each other’s perspectives anymore. You may even tell each other how different you have become. Therefore other people you did not go along well with may open up to you (or you to them) where there were only closed doors before. You may also find people in your life seeing your change and developing together with you. It is such a fantastic phenomenon which causes ripples. 

We are influencing each other and that is why we mustn’t oppress our growth. It is so important to share who we are to inspire as many as possible to share who they are. Keep changing and don’t be afraid. You cannot make your development depending on other people’s approval. You have your path to walk and your life to live. Some will accompany you all life long and some will share sections with you. But one thing is for sure: You will never walk alone. With every change, something new opens up. Due to your evolved being it will be exactly what matches you. Seeing it from that perspective you can also tell from what you like or not like in your life if you need to change something or if you are right on track!

The more authentic we are the more we align with who we really are. But how can we really always say that we are authentic, right? As long as we are not completely enlightened I don’t think we can really claim to be authentic. But I think at least in that awareness and with the humbleness that there is always potential to improve ourselves we are already as authentic as can be. A changed attitude may come along with some struggles but if we never manage struggles we fail to break our shells which keeps us small. Don’t walk with the crowd only because it is the crowd. Whoever you are right now there is someone who needs what you have to give. And if you can change something for the better in the life of one single person, it is worth the effort!

In Love and Light