You’ve Got Me All Wrong 7 – Your Life Has Nothing To Do With You


A few weeks ago I picked up one of Walsch’s books and began to read the first pages. After I read the short list of the 25 core messages to explain the main message (in the title) I stopped reading. It was so inspiring and I my mind started spinning. Before I am reading on I want to share the flow of pictures and thoughts of some of those core messages which immediately filled me. Most of those core messages won’t appear new since we are talking about them over and over again. We all share them with our own words. Isn’t that an amazing proof that we are fully aware of God’s message? If you would like to read the previous parts, you can check out here part 1, part 2,  part 3, part 4, part 5 and part 6.

“Your life has nothing to do with you.
It is about everyone whose life you touch and how you touch it.”

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This one made me ponder a lot. We all know that we are not our lives. We only live a physical life which we create by the way we think, speak, and act (I wrote about this in part 6). But I actually thought that what we create is meant for us in the first place in order to learn from the consequences and experiences we make in the process. Now reading that my life has NOTHING to do with me but much more with those I encounter, made me think. I stepped back and looked at this statement from a distance for a while and all of a sudden I began to understand. The quote above felt like such a truth and still is but now I read it differently.

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If I was the only person on this planet, if no other being was here with me – no people or animals, not even insects – the only interaction I had was the one with me. I would never be thrown off track or confronted with my own personality. I would not be pushed to improve or at least look at my behavior or question my opinions. Yes, I might be centered and never lose contact with my inner world BUT would that teach me anything? What would trigger my development? Would that be what I wanted to come here for?

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I realized that only because of what others do to me, I am in motion (in- and outside). Only the way others touch my life makes me look at things differently and makes me discover more about myself because of the feelings I experience and the thoughts I think. Only the interaction with others helps me to develop. How I encounter life and watching how others encounter life inspires each other. So, in the first place, we come here to affect the lives of others in order that they discover themselves and make the experiences they planned to make. We truly come here to support each other with our presence, no matter what we do to each other.

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“Your life has nothing to do with you. It is about everyone whose life you touch and how you touch it.” Isn’t that simply amazing? If we are aware of what this means we won’t take ourselves so damn serious. We are all here to love and be loved. What we do to others we do to ourselves. Even what we do to ourselves is an influence on others. Whatever I do sends out waves. Be the best for yourself, be the best for others. Sometimes we cannot avoid decisions to make which may hurt others but still do it with love in your heart and not with thoughts of revenge or resentments. As this core message wants to teach us, it is not what we are doing but how we do it.

You, who reads this, have come here to help me and all our brothers and sisters
and I thank you with all my heart.

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A wonderful Post Erika, and I felt the same when I first read the Conversations with God books by NDW.. And that is why we should never judge.. for in effect we are judging ourselves.. And that is why we are told by those who have a NDE that there is no one other than themselves who judge their actions in this life..

Yes it is not necessarily our Actions so much as our INTENTIONS.. And at first while reading some of the text pertaining to Hitler and his crimes.. It was a hard pill to swallow until I really gave it deep thought..

I remember having a wonderful woman who helped me in some counselling sessions after I had my breakdown.. She didn’t speak much letting me offload, but when she did speak she make perfect sense, as she was a very spiritual lady whose wisdom I still remember to this day..

She told me I was carrying guilt for my mother who was unable to show me love, thinking something was wrong with me.. When she said perhaps the reason you chose her as your mother, was that you had something to teach her.. Yet she was not willing to learn the lesson..

We are all on this journey, and we come across people we may only meet for a few moments, who is to say what impact each of us have for each other as we reach out be it in a positive or negative way..
We have no way of knowing because we forgot the blueprint we were given.

Sending MUCH love your way Erika.. I am so pleased our own vibration crossed this time around my friend ❤

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Yes, that is such a profound insight. In judging others we are actually judging ourselves. So, so true! And when you mentioned Hitler it gave me shivers because I too see that whole matter in a different light, at least since I am aware of the fact that whatever happens only happens to make our awarenes grow and to support our growth in the way we react to it.

What that lady told you about the relationship with your mom is moving. Yes, in the first place we think it is her influencing you (which of course happens) but actually you were meant to teach her. Very moving.
This one of God’s messages is so very profound and one which stroke lots of chords inside of me. Once we get that we are here for each other we may finally understand how much love has always been connecting all of us.

Thank you so much, Sue. Your comments are a blessing. Yes, the connection or our energies was stunning and I am very thankful and pleased too how this was orchestrated again!
Have a wonderful evening, dear friend 💖

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Thank you very much! We are calling out for him when things go wrong and asking him how he could let so many cruel things happen. But actually he only let’s us live out our free will. The only thing we need to learn is, how to use it for our benefit! We simply need to remember who we really are and we know the secrets of life.
Thank you so much for visiting💖


Amazing, how inspiring this message is. We think we come for us to develop. But we come to help others to develop in the first place and only as a consequence our development happens. I am amazed because I never looked at it that way!


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