It’s In The Way We Vibrate

Several months ago, I printed this quote and hung it above my workplace. Although I do know this, I find myself worrying about negative results (mainly when it comes to my employed job). At least I notice and usually get myself out of this negative attitude and back on track. Still, I am surprised how deeply such behavior must be rooted in me.

This observation made me watch my surrounding a little better and see if my behavior is (also) an unconscious reaction to the influence of the flow around me. Again, I was surprised that still there is a lot of negative attitudes in people around me. Worrying seems to be the first thing to do when any not completely good news is received. And even if everything seems going smooth all over, some people cannot accept it.

But what if …
the train is delayed, and we miss the flight?
the car breaks down, and I miss my exam?
the weather changes, and we get a thunderstorm at the party?
the meeting will overwhelm me because I can’t answer the questions?
I can’t make it in the required time?
the trip is canceled because the Corona situation worsens again?
the second Covid injection makes me react badly, as has happened to most people I know?
I haven’t prepared enough food or not the food they like?

Yes, all of this could happen. And it is more likely to happen the more the focus is on that outcome. The feelings we develop as a result of our thoughts are powerful vibrational energy. And those vibrations ultimately attract the result of the matching vibration. Again: the law of attraction inaction.

It is necessary to break out of this automatic pattern of thinking. It is not easy when we are used to worrying first for decades. But it is possible. The important thing is to persevere, to observe ourselves, to exchange negative thoughts for positive ones, and to connect ourselves emotionally with the desired result. In the beginning, it takes good stamina, and we have to do it consciously over and over again. But very soon, changing the thoughts will become a habit, and after a while, the changed way of thinking will have become a new reflex. From there, a new thinking pattern develops and settles.

But attention! It should not happen that one desperately bites into a certain goal. Because this can at the same time fuel the fear that that goal will not be achieved. One thinks positively, but feels the fear of the negative. Thus, one would not feel what one wants, but one would radiate the energy of the result, which one just does not want. A positive attitude is important, but it should not lead to living past life and negating its developments. Instead, we should practice allying ourselves with life and let our positive attitude be the force that sees life as a partner rather than an adversary.

What if … 
everything works out well. And even if it doesn’t, what if a solution is always at hand?
I allow myself not to be perfect, let things happen, be more serene, and therefore more concentrated and focused? 
a changed situation brings interesting new developments? 
the real blessing comes from things not working out?

What if … life simply happens to guide us not to punish us?

In Love and Light

About the Author

Posted by

The purpose of my blog is to inspire and shine a light on the beauty and power of the wonderful being inside your body. You came into this world to share what only you can give. Remember who you really are, conquer the world the way you always wanted to, and become the blessing to us all that you were meant to be.


That’s so very true, sis! There are people who say “I always expect the worst, that way I am not disappointed when it happens.” So sad, that they keep them constantly worrying which barely makes them experience anything else but a non-disappointed bad outcome…

Liked by 1 person

Somebody once said ” 90% of what we worry about is not going to happen to us. Insurance companies understand that and make a considerable profit from that knowledge.”

My personal habit is not to worry about anything, until it becomes real. Then I will totally ignore it because either it will “go away”, or it will get worse. If it gets worse, then I will deal with it. Works for me! 🙂

Liked by 2 people

I think that is the best attitude to have. Why worry about something that has not happened yet or may never happen? It only destroys the moment and influences everything badly. As you said, if it happens or gets worse you can still deal with it.
Thank you for sharing this in your comment, Colin. It is very appreciated. I hope you are doing well!


For most of my life it seemed like I swam in a pond of negativity,but 7 years ago that all changed there’s been ups and downs but a very positive mindset and I really try to make everyone positive around me 💁🏻‍♀️❣️ In my own opinion I think that positivity comes and is generated by true happiness and now I swim 🏊‍♀️ in a sea of positivity thanks to a lot good friends and GF’S❣️ Very amazing post hon 💖💖

Liked by 1 person

Aw thanks soooooo very much hon💖💖❣️ I couldn’t of done it without the spectacular positivity and support that I’ve gotten and I’m so very grateful for you and all my friends that are in my life and that keep me in positivity every day I’m definitely GOING and not looking back 👯‍♀️💃🏻 Bless you Erika and thanks 🤗 😘💖💖💖❣️

Liked by 1 person

When we can negate those negative thoughts at the onset, we can diffuse that negative energy and replace it with positive free flowing energy. The attitude we choose to carry is what will determine what will play out. Wonderful post and timely. Have a great day and a very good week overall.

Liked by 2 people

One can definitely influence the outcome actively with the way the believe what the outcome will be. The more doubtlessly convinced we are the more likely this or that happens in either way. Thank you, I am glad you thought it was timely. And I am wishing you a good week too, Sylvester!


over time, and having lived, I so get this. I just have to trust in the universe that everything will turn out and if it doesn’t it is not the end of the world and maybe that was the way it was really meant to happen in the first place.

Liked by 2 people

You make such an important point here, Beth. If something is not working out, doesn’t mean we are not worth it but that something more important is waiting for us. This acceptance keeps our mind open. That’s so wonderful how you said that, Beth 💖

Liked by 1 person

Wise, wise words dear lady, a beautiful post speaking from the heart. And especially these two lines…’the real blessing comes from things not working out? What if … life simply happens to guide us not to punish us?’ ❤️ 🙏🏽
And in all that I see, ‘through’ these very things a heart is born. We cannot give compassion truly, unless we too have experienced those very painful things. We cannot love another truly, unless we too have experienced and understood, and in doing so…loved ourselves.
This world is so beautifully designed to give us the one thing we desire more than all else, to find that love and happiness we always seek. And it is there…waiting…until we understand. We cannot understand until we experience and feel all of those emotions and finally understand us within them. This conditional world IS the most unconditional love that God can give. By allowing us to be free and make each and every decision for ourselves, experiencing it all so that understanding is born to give us hope, faith…and finally an answer to what we have been missing and always search for…that love of ourselves. Only then can we truly love another…and finally within that understanding…love unconditionally, ourselves and others ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋

Liked by 1 person

I couldn’t agree more, Mark. In German compassion means “einfühlen” which means “feeling in”. And we can only feel into someone when we know or at least have an idea of how something feels.
Oh, yes, I think once someone starts exploring the spiritual side on themselves consciously that waiting aspect is recognized pretty soon. It is such a big part of the whole becoming prozess. This waiting is important because that is where the growth lies. If it just happened we would never appreciate the happening as much or see the miracle and blessing in that becoming. That is why we find the deepest insights in the most silent and quiet moments.
Thank you so much for your wonderful words which are filled with so much wisdom and love, Mark 💖

Liked by 1 person

Add a Response

Your name, email address, and comment are required. We will not publish your email.

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

The following HTML tags can be used in the comment field: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <pre> <q cite=""> <s> <strike> <strong>

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: