It doesn’t matter how nice, beautiful, or lovely something may appear, some people are having problems accepting thankfully and instead reflexively question all good things. They are more convinced that good things cannot be real but accept the not-so-good things as the only realistic option. Whatever good they see, they will not be fine until they find something to criticize. Yes, all that glitter is not gold. But why search for the non-gold when I am doing good with what glitters?

No one and nothing is perfect, and then again, how do we define “perfect”? We will always find coals when we are digging deep enough. Those who are only focusing on finding something bad, proudly hold up high that piece of coal in order to run someone down. What they don’t notice is the dirt on themselves due to the mud digging while pointing at the other one.

There is not only good or bad. We can find either in everything. It is our choice what we are searching for. But some instantly check where the rub is. That way, they cannot enjoy the beautiful things in life or even don’t notice it. For example, when someone is permanently scared to eat anything unhealthy they may not only look for healthy food but for everything unhealthy in a possible healthy food… once that starts they never get it done. What happens is that they are eating with fear instead of enjoyment. That way fear becomes part of their nutrition. I believe that this is one of the reasons why people get sick although they are eating deliberately healthy. Because it is not the food that makes them sick in the first place but the poisoning thoughts.

There are many more situations like the business world and relationships, … in which someone can be caught looking out for what they actually want to avoid. Once they found something suspicious they felt confirmed although they were only blind to all the good things around them. We definitely shouldn’t believe everything we see and hear. But we mustn’t drive ourselves crazy by only seeking conspiracy theories. Because then we might only find coals and the gold will be found by those who reflexively reach for the beauty in the normal and even more in the difficult. Even rotten food cannot harm your body as much as constant rotten thoughts can. Feed your system with beauty and joy and pass it on to others.

In Love and Light