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love this! 🙌😊
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We suffer the most from it, not the person we don’t forgive 💖
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You can forgive and although you may not forget, at least you are not carrying that unnecessary burden
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Right, forgiving and forgetting are two different pairs of shoes.
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They definitely don’t mix and match.
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Erika, nice analogy. Forgiveness is a gift to both your victimizer and yourself. I was watching a show where a couple had an argument and he thought it was over. His girlfriend aptly said we just had a fight, we can move past this. So, if we don’t get in the habit of both forgiving and understanding our part, then we will be throwing too many relationships away. Keith
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It is very important what you said here, Keith. Only if we want to understand can we lay the foundation for ourselves to genuinely forgive. And understanding does not mean accepting the attitudes of others, but accepting that they did not know any better. Thank you very much, Keith!
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Erika, a lesson I learned as a manager is there are very few communication problems that are solely one person’s fault. Same for relationships. Keith
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True, very true! And those who blame only one person are probably the most involved ones.
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gee whiz, great anaolgy
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Thank you, Annette, I am glad you think so 💖
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……the harder you resist forgiveness, the tighter the rope becomes. ❗️
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Oh, yes, that is good picture you described here, Gail 💖
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Blessings, Erika. 💜🧡🩷
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Haha, well said Erika. I was wondering what this rash around my neck is 🤣❤️🙏
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Maybe you should let a doctor see this because I can’t imagine that you wouldn’t be able to forgive😉
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Haha, why thank you Erika. I did used to be like anyone else, ever pointing a finger and not looking at myself. Fear will do that, we don’t want to admit we could be in the wrong. That is admitting more doubt, more pain, more unlovable bits than we already carry…not realising, that ‘is’ what we are carrying that causes it all in the first place. From our reactions that is, not everything is ‘our’ fault. But…those ‘fights’ will still stir up our fear bits regardless. It is ever a habit to be ‘on guard’ whenever we encounter a tense situation and we then become a ‘reaction’, not a listener 🤗❤️🙏
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You summed this up very well, Mark. I agree, the first reaction is protection instead of observing. We carry so much around and think that by not looking at it, it doesn’t hurt. It is like protective posture when you have a problem with your limbs or your back. Not moving may appear as the solutin because it keeps you from pain while the muscles get weak and other parts of the body are overstrained. It think realizing that we don’t solve the problem but make it worse or more complex over time only happens when the first part of that old suppressed pain starts to crumble and we see that there is nothing to lose but everything to gain. Thank you, Mark 💖
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