Our Attachments Create Our Lifes

In California, I bought a small book called The Five Levels of Attachment by Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. I have only read the first few pages, but again, my mind started spinning from everything that is falling into place like a jigsaw puzzle. Also, it makes a good addition to last week’s post “The Problems of the World need to be solved on the Level of Belief”.

The core is that the more attached we are to a certain belief (which is subjective), the less we see the real wisdom to be discovered. It is good to believe in something but as I said last week, we need to be careful what we believe in and be aware that a belief is not the truth. When we look at life through the filter of our belief system, we are completely missing the life we could live. When we are too focused on what we know, we are blind to see what we don’t know. Since we create our lives from what we know, our creations are based on our attachments. And those creations happen reflexively. That is also the reason why the same words can be understood completely differently by two people. That can lead to misunderstandings and drama. And that’s only, because none of them considered a different perception based on a different, personally created belief system.

We attach ourselves consciously or unconsciously as a consequence of what we believe. That concerns the picture we have of ourselves. A possible lack of love we feel for ourselves attaches us even more to that lack instead of to the perfect being we are. If we were not perfect the way we are, we would not be the way we are. It is that simple. As I often wrote, all that is, exists to make one whole and to support each of us in our development. Once we understand how our attachment to a belief can restrict our view and perception, we may try to detach from that belief. But we must be careful not to create an additional attachment: to detach from what we are attached to. That way, the grip of what we want to let go can become even tighter. That’s why we must not fight something. That which we fight is what we set our mind to.

Detaching does not work by looking at the object and trying to talk it away. Creating a new or changed belief works by seeing what we want to believe instead. See yourself as a perfect creation with all its opinions, ideas, visions, dreams, ways, and beliefs. And so is everyone. Once you stop looking at what you cannot stand and instead search for all that you appreciate, detachment happens naturally. You open your mind for more. The picture of yourself and of who you are becomes wider. You begin to see that who you are lies beyond your attachments. Only there can you find your whole potential and the joy of using and sharing it. Only from the place of detachment can you enter the world of wisdom.

As long as we claim that “we know”, we keep ourselves from knowledge.
Let’s open our minds and let wisdom happen.

In Love and Light

P.S. I am looking forward to continue reading that book… hopefully, one day soon 😂


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It took me a while to realize that all that I experienced down here was so that I could see, feel and understand a ‘conditional’ experience. Like when I saw that in experiencing sadness it made me appreciate happiness so much more. So then…in experiencing it all, all those opposites, I would then ‘let go’ in those understandings, as all other understandings are…and finally be in that place of not holding anything. When I was in that state of unconditional love, it was everything and nothing…not even any time. Time is a separation of moments, unconditional is the removal of that and to just ‘be’. But to reach unconditional we must understand its opposite of conditional, and let it go…or why else are we here? Just a thought Erika…one day we will be there…wherever, whatever ‘there’ is. Great post dear lady, my attachment to this belief will indeed change…until I understand it and let it go too 😀❤️🙏

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Here we are again. Our learning experience happens through opposites. We learn how something works for us or doesn’t. That makes us check out a different way. Sometimes only after we bumped that much into the wall of a dead end that we caught a bloody nose.
Time does not matter, it does not even exist, when even it is still difficult to get. However, we learn constantly and collectively. With every experience we somehow feed the collective.

There is still so much we are attached to but I think only recognizing that the one or the other attachment exists is already a big leap forward… we only need to keep hanging in and are patient with ourselves and others.

Thank you so much, Mark!

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Well said Erika. It is so disappointing to hear people criticize others simply because of a difference. i,e. criticizing people living on the street. Somebody once said “A little learning is a dangerous thing.” and in many cases that is quite correct.

We all need to understand that our perspectives are made up from our upbringing, our education, our life experiences etc. etc. This is what makes us each unique. I know that my perspectives on the world are different from yours (Erika), but then I know that our respective lives to date have been quite different. That does not make me respect you any less, but simply allows us both an opportunity to learn from each other. This is surely the basis for so many Blogs.

As for those people living on the street? I have yet to hear of anybody whose dream was to live in poverty on the street. Circumstances have put them there, and if we were to learn about their earlier life experiences, we would likely understand their circumstances a little better and be less critical and more compassionate.

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That is what many still need to work on: Realizing that a different opinion or point of view does not make their or another person’s perspective wrong. It is simply a different perspective of the same thing and all perspecitve together may lead to a “more complete” truth. At least, the collective development and awareness would rise dramatically. All perspectives are inspirations and opinions… not more not less. And attaching to one makes us the slave to our or others subjective truth.

As you said, we need to listen, we neet to want to know about others and how they reached the place where they are today. That is the real learning experience. It is of no use to see someone’s current situation and build your own imagined story around it.

Thank you for another insightful comment, dear Colin. I always appreciate you stopping by and leaving your thoughts.

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