Recently I found this topic in a few posts. It inspired me to write a post about it. I truly think there is a big misunderstanding regarding the general meaning of soul mates. Just a few thoughts:

Have you ever been in this situation? You encounter a person in person, on the phone, via email, or whatever. You don’t even need to talk to each other but you feel familiar with them. It can likely be that there is even no sympathy. But you feel connected in some way. I am sure you all can say yes. You might have met a soul mate.

When I joined a class for Matrix Transformation the teacher said that we have about 25 to 30 soul mates at the same time incarnated. They are all aspects of the same soul. But it is not the whole soul. The biggest part of the soul is not incarnated. We want to experience so much in a possible short time and get spread over the globe. Some of our soul aspects we do meet during an incarnation and some we don’t. Doubles are often parts of the same soul family.

Now I am coming to the point: I so often hear or read that people are desperately looking for their soul mate. But a soul mate doesn’t necessarily be the perfect life partner. A soul mate is a spirit who helps you grow and develop. It can be a family member or a friend, and very often our soul mates are our biggest challenges but not our lovers. When we got suppressed, offended, hated, or dominated we need to develop or change something in order to find a way out because they won’t do us the favor and change for us. You might believe that your worst enemy is only there in order to make your life as hard as possible. Perhaps you feel even punished. But it is the opposite.

Before we incarnate we make our agreements with other souls in order to support each other in the best possible way. Every soul is pure love. Some sacrifice themselves to be our worst challenge in order to fulfill what we wish to experience. Yes, we wish to experience hatred, domination, and offending. But only in order to find a way out of it and experience the miracle of liberation, the miracle of growth, the miracle of ourselves. We want to forget our light in order to stand in awe when we find it shining brightly after long dark nights. A lesson learned through experience is the most empowering energy in your development. If we love someone dearly we are often not strict enough to make the other one learn a hard lesson.

Try to be aware of people who seem to make your life a burden – they might be the most precious and lovely souls you are blessed with. They are angels as well and their love might be so big that they play the part of the bad guy in order to make you fulfill your plan.

Now what? Is this whole soul mate thing an invention of songwriters? I believe that there are these perfect and ultimate matches: Twin Souls. Two souls who feel like one. For example, twins can be twin souls. Twin souls mostly know long before they meet that there is another part of them somewhere. They are searching for the other half and get confused when they don’t show up because they feel their presence. When they meet they miraculously recognize each other immediately. It seems that love came unexpectedly but it has only been waiting for the right moment. Those two souls are able to feel the other person although they might be thousands of miles apart. It is a connection that did not have to become but has always been.

In Love and Light!