Hi, I am Erika! I was born in Vienna but grew up in another part of Austria and in the Principality of Liechtenstein (within the Swiss Alps), where I still live. I am a wife and mom of three grown-up kids and work at a company for alternative investment funds (AIFM). I am also self-employed with my company, Because You Matter, where I offer physical and energetic treatments and produce natural cosmetics. Next to all this, I am a singer, songwriter, and author.
For a long time, I was dominated and controlled by fears and outside influences. From my teenage years to adulthood, my life was overshadowed by destructive thought patterns. I believed this was what life had been meant to be for me since I had not known anything else. But one day I stood up and started to face my fears one by one, leading to many small (and one big) breakthrough moments (still counting). My life changed completely. Today, I grab my chances and lead the life I always wished for. To share my life-changing insights, I wrote I’m Free – Awareness of Who You Are by Discovering Who You Are Not!

When I started blogging in May 2014, I had no idea what this was about. I did it to promote my book and was therefore trained by my publisher. Over time, I have found my way of blogging and what I want to share with as many people as possible. So my blog has become a place for everyone to pause for a moment, lighten up the heart, smile, get inspired, and fuel with good vibes. We are all wonderful beings who came into this world to explore, discover, experience, create, and simply enjoy the given life in a human body with all senses. I want you to open your heart to hear, see, and feel more clearly about yourself, your life, and the world. Therefore, we need the happenings in our lives as signposts and tools. It is neither good nor bad – it simply is. Whatever happens has its reason to show us something or make us develop something. Life is simply all about living with everything it has in store for us.
I am not sitting on a cloud with an enlightened smile on my face all day long. I am dealing with my challenges as everyone does. But since I believe what I wrote above, I have no excuse. However, I can be angry, stubborn, impatient, sad, and frustrated. But I know these characteristics are part of my experience, but not part of me. I am happy as a basic condition of my being. Therefore, I don’t deny negative feelings because I know they will show me something to discover a new part of myself.
Reach out for the stars
but only as high
as your feet can still touch the ground!
In Love and Light!

Hi Erika, I just read your story and it really resonated with me — the way you describe facing your fears one by one and turning that into something as powerful as I’m Free is inspiring. I run a bilingual creative writing blog myself (Love Relished With Ink), and stories like yours remind me why writing about real, hard-won growth matters. Thank you for sharing this so openly!
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Hi, Ajay, nice to meet you. I hear you. When I started writing “I’m Free” I was not sure if that book will ever be published. I felt the need to share my experience that others don’t need to suffer longer than necessary from similar misunderstandings. At least I wanted to write it, and if it was only for my own healing and awareness. However, I published it… and so much more was developing from there.
Writing is an enormous tool. It helps us to gain clarity and insights. And we inspire ourselves and others.
Keep up your good work, Ajay and thanks for stopping by 😊
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Hi Erika, thank you so much for such a warm and generous reply — it really means a lot. Funny enough, I think we actually crossed paths and had a conversation back in 2017 or maybe 2018. I’d already been blogging since 2010 by then, so writing has been a part of my life for a long time, but somewhere along the way life got busy and I ended up going quiet for a good long stretch.
I’m finally back now, and honestly it feels good to be putting words out into the world again. Reading your comment and hearing how “I’m Free” started as something you weren’t even sure would be published, but grew into so much more, is genuinely inspiring. It’s a good reminder of why we write in the first place — not always knowing where it will lead, but trusting that it matters anyway.
Really glad our paths crossed again after all these years. I’ll definitely be checking out “I’m Free” — sounds like exactly the kind of writing that helps others feel less alone in their own experiences. Thanks again for stopping by and for the encouragement 😊
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Oh, yes! Of course, I remember! Oh, it has been quite a while that we chatted here on WordPress. So good to have you back Ajay!
Your second paragraph totally speaks to my heart. Yes, that is what we nee to really relearn: to trust the journey. We cannot really go wrong as long as we follow that inner feeling that can often be stronger than our mind’s rational observation and planning. If we do trust, we will definitely stay on our path, regardless how it may look like, and it will lead us to places inside and outside of us that, over time, we might remember that we wanted to reach.
That has been the reason I did publish “I’m Free”. I said to myself, if it only helps one person to make their lives a little better, it was all worth it. Three years ago, I published my latest book “365 Thoughts of Healing”. It works like daily inspiration or can give inputs when picking a random page. Each page contains a quote, some thoughts to it, and an affirmation. I posted quite a few excerpts on my blog. You can find them under the category “365 Thoughts of Healing”.
I am really happy to have you back here. Looking forward to discussions like years ago. Have a great day, Ajay!
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And enlighten us you have kind lady, with a heart shared indeed. I haven’t known you for that long but thank you, just your smile, let alone your music, has ever changed my view of the world 😀❤️🙏🏽
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Wow, Mark, I don’t know if I can express what your words did to me. Still, I have goosebumps all over. If what I do really has this impact, I could not be more thankful. Let’s keep smiling and singing to fill as many hearts as possible. You can do that so well too, Mark 💖
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It is that gift of love within us. And like all gifts it is in finding it and unwrapping that gift that its power of acceptance shines so well 😀❤️🙏🏽
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You always find the best analogies, Mark. A true sign of dedication to love. Thank you 💖
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My congratulations for your achievements, Erica! Es scheint mir, dass ich hier auf einem Blog oder bei einer Bloggerin gelandet bin,der/die meiner Seele gut tut:) Cari saluti Martina
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Vielen Dank, dass du dir die Zeit zum Vorbeischaun genommen hast. Das freut mich natürlich sehr zu hören. Ich hoffe, dass sich dein Eindruck auch bestätigen wird, damit du dich hier immer wohlfühlst. Ich freue mich schon auf viele Inspirationen und Eindrücke auf deinem Blog. Liebe Grüsse Erika
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Congratulations, dear Erika!
I have nominated your blog for the Prestigious Penable Award. A new award for me, and maybe for you as well.
More about this nomination is at
https://dearkitty1.wordpress.com/2020/05/26/prestigious-penable-award-thanks-laleh-chini/
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Thank you very much, dear Kitty. I appreciate it 💖
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Very well deserved. All the best for you and your blog!
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Thank you so much for your kindness 💖
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Congratulations, dear Erika!
I have nominated your blog for the Vincent Ehendero Blog Award.
More on this nomination is at
https://dearkitty1.wordpress.com/2020/03/25/vincent-ehendero-blogger-award-thank-you-charlotte/
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Thank you very much, dear Kitty. It is much appreciated 😊
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