Hi, I am Erika! I was born in Vienna but grew up in another part of Austria and in the Principality of Liechtenstein (within the Swiss Alps) where I still live. I am a wife and mom of three grown-up kids and work in a company for alternative investment funds (AIFM). I am also self-employed with my company Because You Matter where I offer physical and energetic treatments and produce natural cosmetics. Next to this all I am a singer, songwriter, and author.
For a long time, I was dominated and controlled by fears and outside influences. From teenage times to adulthood, my life was overshadowed by destructive thought patterns. I believed this was what life had been meant to be for me since I never knew something else. But one day I stood up and started to face my fears one by one leading to many small and one big breakthrough moments (still counting). My life changed completely. Today I grab my chances and lead the life I always wished for. To share my life-changing insights I wrote I’m Free – Awareness of Who You Are by Discovering Who You Are Not!

When I started blogging in May 2014 I had no idea what this was about. I did it to promote my book and was trained therefore by my publisher. Over time I have found my way of blogging and what I want to share with as many people as possible. So my blog has become a place for everyone to pause for a moment, lighten up the heart, smile, get inspired, and fuel with good vibes. We are all wonderful beings who came into this world to explore, discover, experience, create, and simply enjoy the given life in a human body with all senses. I want you to open your heart to hear, see, and feel clearer about yourself, your life, and the world. Therefore we need the happenings in our lives as signposts and tools. It is neither good nor bad – it simply is. Whatever happens, has its reason to show us something or make us develop something. Life is simply all about living with everything it has in store for us.
I am not sitting on a cloud with an enlightened smile on my face all day long. I am dealing with my challenges as everyone does. But since I believe what I wrote above I have no excuse. However, I can be angry, stubborn, impatient, sad, and frustrated. But I know these characteristics are part of my experience but not part of me. I am happy as a basic condition of my being. Therefore I don’t deny negative feelings because I know, they will show me something to discover a new part of myself.
Reach out for the stars
but only as high
as your feet can still touch the ground!
In Love and Light!

Yes, I can see yours, but I cannot see mine 😉
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Oh, well… sometimes WP acts in unlogic ways!
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Congratulations, dear Erika!
I have nominated your blog for the Lovely Blog Award.
More about this nomination is ar
https://dearkitty1.wordpress.com/2019/03/19/lovely-blog-award-thanks-unbolt-me/
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That is very lovely of you, Kitty. Thank you very much, I appreciate it a lot 😊
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Thanks for your kind words, dear Erika!
Now, I would like to add a smiley, but somehow I cannot see my smileys in WordPress any more.
Can you see this one? 🙂
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Yes, I do! It worked out perfectly. I hope you can see mine, too 😊
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Hi Erika, saw your aspirations concerning aromatherapy, etc. & thought you could enjoy reading this blog entry: https://skirmisheswithreality.net/2018/01/23/a-i-t-s-1-the-bouquet
Cheers!
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Hi, Robert! Thank you very much for stopping by and sharing your article. I took a quick look and saw that you are working with Bachblüten. I use them too, due to what the client needs. the power of nature is unbelievable. Nature has something for whatever issue we are dealing with… mentally and physically!
Your article is very long and therefore I need to get back to your article later when I have some more time. I hope you don’t mind.
Have a good day!!
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Wow, Erika! You live in such a beautiful part of the world and I loved the background to your photo. It was great to find your blog and I find your understanding of darkness and light, refreshing and consistent with my own outlook. Fear has been a big part of my life too and I am becoming more resilient the more I step out of my comfort zones and find that “I’m not dead!”
Best wishes,
Rowena
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Isn’t that such a liberating moment when we decide to take fear the power to control our lives? That moment when we realize that no one but we ourselves can limit us is THE breakthrough!! Life changes immediately. It is very nice to meet you, Rowena and I am glad to see the light that shines brighter and brighter on your path!
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Thank you for sharing this video with others, it has a healing message!
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I thought so too and I am glad you confirm this, Wilson! Thank you for stopping by, dear friend!
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My pleasure, thank you for serving the world!
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Thank you too, Wilson!
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You’re welcome!
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So glad to have found you and your blog 🙂 ❤
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That’s lovely of you to say and I appreciate it very much, dear!!
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Hi Erika,
I found you through a friend’s blog…lovely “about” and I look forward to reading more.
Have a peaceful Sunday, Lauren ❤
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Hi, Lauren! Welcome to the community. I am happy you got in touch. Thank you for that kind comment. I appreciate it very much and I am looking forward to talking more often to you from now on. 😊
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You’re very welcome, Erika, and I’m happy to have found you. I’ve been blogging for six years now, but it’s always great to meet new people.
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Wow, for 6 years already! Yes, it is lovely that this flow of connecting doesn’t stop 😊
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Thank you for making my day a happy day !!! 🙂 xx
https://decodinghappyness.com/2017/08/17/the-happyness-project-aug-15th/
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I just saw it, my dear friend! Thank you so much! You always make my day a bit brighter with you shining being 💖
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You deserve so much love 😇💖💐😀
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You are touching my heart, Himali 💖💖
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For some strange, very wrong reason, I always thought you were stateside. I should have known better. That smile would never belong to someone living in the USA.
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Haha… you are charming. But I am sure a smile is not depending on any nationality… lol! I have a close connection to the US. I lived in the suburbs of Buffalo in the 90’s and I am addicted to California. But I take it as a big compliment that you did not recognize too many mistakes in the language since English is not my mother tounge.
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What an inspirational personal story! I too have many stories of bad childhood memories but that have molded me into the person I am today. Keep up the great work!
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Yes, exactly, Dana! And today you are the best person who will be even better tomorrow! Thank you very much for this wonderful and appreciated comment 😊
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Thank you so much for your encouragement. Thanks for reading the blog!
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You are very welcome!! 😊
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Sup Erika how have u been? I got out of the hospital recently inpatient 15 days finding a bipolar med that helped me sleep without the side effects of raising my blood sugars. My old med had my sugars at 400. With new med and diet my sugars have been so good my insulin will be only used part time during meals not overnight, Great news. Happy to be well.
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I am glad you are feeling better and I hope it will stay like this. Happy Easter, Dan!!
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Thanks you too Erika! I’ll keep you updated. My blood sugar was normal this morning.
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Good!!
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Nice to meet you Erika! I’m enjoying the positive message of your blog 🙂
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Hi, Margret! That’s so nice of you to stop by and leaving such a lovely comment! I appreciate this very much and thank you also so much for the follow. Welcome to the community 💖
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I am thankful to have found your blog today. I am inspired by your journey and look forward to following you.
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Awesome, Ali! I am looking forward to a lot of inspiring talks! Thank you for following me. I appreciate it very much and send you warm hugs 💖
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Just found your blog, it is beautiful!
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Hi and welcome in the community! Thank you so much for stopping by and checking my blog out. I appreciate it very much!!! Have a lovely day 😊
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Erika,
I’ve nominated you for the Treasure Trove Award.
You don’t have to do a thing.
Nothing.
If you want to you can copy the award from
my page and use it as an opportunity to
to thank some of the bloggers who follow your
blog –or not.
Danica at Living a Beautiful Life made the
Award.
It’s my way of saying Thank you for your
support of Art by Rob Goldstein.
To find out more click here. http://wp.me/p47Ymh-5rA
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Oh my, thank you so much for considering me again, Robert. Really, I so appreciate it…. so very much. I will head right over to your post 😊
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Just wonderful! 🙂
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You are lovely! Thank you very much 😊
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You have a very beautiful blog, I am sure it is a reflection of you.
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Hi Maria 😊Thank you so very much for stopping by and for leaving such a lovely comment. I am humbled. I only try to pass on what I have been blessed with. Thank you so much 💖
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That’s an interesting journey Erika! you’re doing a great work of motivating fellow humans! Great going! Good wishes!
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Hi, Arv! First of all thank you very much for stopping by and leaving such a lovely and also motivating comment. I appreciate that a lot. Best wishes and blessings to you too!
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Thank you Erika! 🙂
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😊😊
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Oh wow! Thank you, sis 💖
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