Erika, interesting question. It depends on what we mean by pushing. Urging someone to do better, try something or do the right thing? Or, someone who is pushing you to do something bad so they won’t be doing it alone? On the receiving side, sometimes the loyal, diligent worker needs a push to try a new job or go into business for themselves.

So, as Annette and Amy are correct, there can be good either, But, there can also be some bad too. There is an art to “pushing” someone without being a pest or nag and you don’t want to let people push you into doing something you don’t want to do.

Some folks with low self esteem want others to make decisions for them, so my wife has a teasing way to make them realize they have the power to make the decision. She will tell someone, “You are a grown ass woman, you can make this decision.” My wife is a great listener and delivers this with a smile, so she can get away with it.

So, the key is not to cede your power; and don’t abuse your power with others. Keith

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