DAY 12 #LOVEUARY❤ – Marriage

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Today I make a two in one: Song of the Day and Ritu’s #Loveuare in one post. Please check out details about her series here!

Perhaps this is not what you might expect to read from me. But it is what came to my mind regarding today’s topic:

I still love the idea of marriage. It is the greatest to show the world with this bond how clear and happy you are to be with that one person you love more than your life.

A love story can have many faces. When I was about to get married we had a meeting with our priest. I liked him a lot because he was very down to earth. One of his questions was: “From today’s point, are you determined to keep this marriage until death? You never know what life brings but I only want to know if you feel like this at the moment when you get married.” I appreciated him for this realistic view even more. Things can change!

In a relationship, it is hard when one pulls desperately towards a new direction and the other one still tries to hold on to what is not meant to be anymore. Perhaps the one who wants to move on tries it the gentle way first. But the problem is that this might no speak loud enough and the other one doesn’t take the message(s) serious! So the next step is speaking up clearer which may be shocking for the one who denied the inevitable. Hard for both: being the one who needs to hurt and the one who gets hurt. But keeping up a relationship only because it was started will be devastating for both in the end. At one point you need to face the truth and let it go!

Let It Go – Avril Lavigne ft. Chad Kroeger

[Avril Lavigne]
Love that once hung on the wall
Used to mean something, but now it means nothing
The echoes are gone in the hall
But I still remember, the pain of DecemberOh, there isn’t one thing left you could say
I’m sorry it’s too late[Chorus]
I’m breaking free from these memories
Gotta let it go, just let it go
I’ve said goodbye
Set it all on fire
Gotta let it go, just let it go[Chad Kroeger]
You came back to find I was gone
And that place is empty,
Like the hole that was left in me
Like we were nothing at all
It’s not what you meant to me
Thought we were meant to beOh, there isn’t one thing left you could say
I’m sorry it’s too late[Chorus]
I’m breaking free from these memories
Gotta let it go, just let it go
I’ve said goodbye
Set it all on fire
Gotta let it go, just let it go

I let it go and now I know
A brand new life is down this road
And when it’s right, you always know
So this time I won’t let go

There’s only one thing left here to say
Love’s never too late

[Chorus]
I’ve broken free from those memories
I’ve let it go, I’ve let it go
And two goodbyes led to this new life
Don’t let me go, don’t let me go

Don’t let me go, don’t let me go, don’t let me go, don’t let me go

[4x]
Won’t let you go, don’t let me go

In Love and Light

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Relationships have ups and downs. No matter who you end up with, it will never be perfect. Everyone fights at some point. I think people give up too quickly nowadays. I want something like my grandparents. They’ve been married 56 years. They have been through some hard times but they’re still together.

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I agree. If there is not a particular reason there should be a second chance at least! Both need to learn to listen to each other. Overcoming such hard times can pull even stronger together in the end. But when you see that you only stay together for the sake of staying together it will not help anyone but get only worse when both (or one) feel chained in a relationship they don’t want anymore.

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