Day 5 #Loveuary❤ – Online


My blog sister, Ritu, of But I Smile Anyway has a beautiful challenge going through this Valentine month. Love is my favorite subject and how could I resist to participate as much as possible. The good thing is there are no real rules. You can choose any prompt that comes to your mind, pick any of Ritu’s suggested prompts, or use them in her order which I do. You find more information here

Love is an energetic connection and there is no law that says how love or friendships are supposed to happen. In past days those where the penpals (I had quite some) and today it is mostly social media. For sure the authenticity differs a bit more regarding the platform but talking about the blogosphere I am more certain than ever that who I call a friend today truly is a friend. We are more likely to show our inner being through writing which makes it easier to connect with the real person aside from any outer appearances, jobs, life situations, … I was already convinced about it before but got proved clearly through each and ever meeting in person with the great people I know from our community.

Now talking about true love, it is basically the same. Of course, a lot of things are part of falling in love with someone. But basically, it is a meeting of hearts. I also believe that if it is meant for someone to meet their true love in this lifetime they will meet them in some way. These days with all of those technical possibilities it is so easy to connect even over continents. That’s why the ignition of love is not limited to personal encounters anymore. Energy knows no borders and flows freely throughout the universe. That’s why also healing can take place without the healer and the patient being at the same place.

Of course, there are foul eggs on social media (which I can tell from experience). But you can meet and get tricked by a foul egg living next door as well! Love is about feeling. And I even believe that falling in love over social media can be easier since we tend to be more open and mostly show more of ourselves than we might do when we meet someone in person for the first time. Yes, I am sure that meeting true love online is possible as it is wherever you are. Love simply happens and you cannot even help it because the hearts touch before the mind realizes.

It doesn’t matter where we meet but THAT we meet!

In Love and Light

P.S. After some comments I need to mention here that I am not talking about “online dating”. That is something completely different in my eyes and is definitely more likely abused by low intentions!

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Great post! Love connects who it wants, wherever it wants, in person or through online connections. Friendships, buddies, acquaintances or something more, love sparks it all. Those rotten eggs are always around.

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Great post, Erika 😀
Love is possible in such many ways today. It is possible to find love online, you just need to be very careful. I have tried both positive and less positive by this way.
You never know, who you will meet, people can be true or fake, so a great idea to talk online face by face fx by Skype many times, before meeting in real life. There are many true souls around, who search for love, but unfortunately there are also many fakes, who just wish to profit the situation.

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Yes, I agree! But I think as long as you are searching deliberately – whether online or in real life – you may hit walls. Love needs to happen naturally and then (so I believe) the face part is a lot limited.

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When I mean to talk online live, I also mean this to assure yourself, that it is a real living, as you are talking to. There are so many fake people online, when you start to look for love. I have been there, which is why, I wrote this.

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Yes, definitely! (Btw. I meant “you” not personally but in general). Many are dating only right because they are hiding something or want to be someone they are not! Some are also not dating “obviously” but are online (blogging, tweeting) with that thought in mind…. experienced that once and burnt my fingers!

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Definitely! As we need to be with everyone in the beginning. I burned my fingers once! But I learned! I just added a sentences in the post: “It doesn’t matter where we meet but THAT we meet!” Modern technology makes so much more possible!

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